Good day my fine fellows🪻💜
March 15th, 2026
I SWTG I am sick of myself lol, kinda not lol. Let’s talk about my last maybe 10 minutes…
I made two trips to the UPS Store. Back to back. Thankfully, because that particular UPS Store really is like a commercial, it didn’t take any time at all, but honestly..
As important as it is for me to save time, I truly dwindle more of it by overthinking things that don’t need to be overthought rather than just thinking clearer and doing the damn thing.
I sweated! I sweated today, especially – being take-action-day – over some items I needed to ship and acquiring their shipping labels. For ThredUp, I stressed and stressed rummaging my email and contacting support in search of its shipping label, only to realize I must have scanned the bag over like an ape because it was on it already. The whole time. For AT&T, I sweated rummaging my email, again, only to find it and not need it because they were able to pull up the information without it. My head hurts. I swear if I could kick my own ass sometime. It’s gone from cute and quirky to you stupid son of-
So I’m just like…another lesson learned. I overthink what doesn’t need to be overthought and I end up in a brain fog that just aggravates the situation.
Funny thing is, I was ready to try to write playfully, unpurposefully in here today because I desperately need to and have forgotten how to write without shaming it and overcorrecting, but now here I am. Once again, I found a lesson to share. Most things aren’t as difficult or as bad as they seem. Most of the time, you have the strength you need and more. Although my original message of not having all the answers is still something I’d like to return to…
So yeppers Jan, most things aren’t as bad as they seem and I really need to find a way to reframe them better, so they can feel more approachable.
And I need to go easy on my rigid scheduling – or just overall rigidity. It’s great to have goals and be disciplined, but I am struggling to find a healthy balance is also part of the problem. 😕 This is also a topic for another day. Is this growth? 🦋
But I did almost decide to break protocol today and not clean, but nah. Couldn’t do it. 😀
Hopefully, I’ll continue to figure some of this out. A-ha! Circled back to I have no answers. I’m trying to go back to whimsy and nonsense. I think I’ll find my answers there. I hope one day to find the mome raths that’ll lead me back to Wonderland.
Why is a Raven like a writing a desk?
💜
Nessa Grey
P.S. I’m trying to befriend crows or ravens or both! I’ll keep you posted.
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